Nothing is the same in this world and that includes people. Everyone is different which is what makes us unique, even twins! Differences make the world go round as everyone has different strengths, weaknesses, opinions and beliefs that all have a role to play. In saying this, a lot of people find it really hard to accept people who are different to them but it’s very important to accept people even if you don’t believe the same thing or have the same abilities.

People with disabilities face not being accepted on a regular basis and most of the time it’s unintentional or even unconsciously. Some examples are:

•  Not being given a menu at a restaurant 

•  Being stared at all the time in public 

•  People not thinking you’re smart just because you’re in a wheelchair 

These things are what I have noticed from having a disability but I’m sure other people have different expectations. It’s not just people with disabilities that have differences that people struggle to accept. People who have different opinions, beliefs or reactions are often questioned or aren’t accepted by others.

Accepting others is very important as it adds value to the person and helps everyone to have an open mind. It is especially important in these unpredictable times as people have different ways of dealing with things. It is important to acknowledge and understand these differences instead of resisting or arguing against them.

Accepting people with differences to yours not only enhances their life but also yours. Try to imagine yourself in their shoes and act how you would want to be treated in that situation. So say "hi" instead of staring, assume they have a life beyond their disability, accept instead of questioning, and always be kind.

About the Writer:

I am a born and raised young New Zealand Māori woman. I was born with cerebral palsy which affects my muscles but not my mind. I am just like any other young person who has dreams, aspirations and enjoys having fun. I am in my fourth year at the University of Auckland studying Criminology and Māori Studies with dreams to one day working in the justice system. I have a YouTube channel called Wheely Wacky Adventures where my friend Leah and I share videos of our adventures such as skydiving and bungy jumping just to name a couple. I am full of life and ready to take on what comes for me.